The development of the social self in socialization is very important for all of us to be successful. It doesn’t matter what you want to do with your life; whatever you do you need socialization skills to be successful with your life.
Without socialization, we can become depressed that can lead to depression. Socialization is a way to relax and stay healthy for developing skills. Relaxation is required in order to obtain extra energy for making good constructive decisions, focusing, and maintaining the way we live.
The development of the social self may require that you make some changes with your attitude, activities, and yes-relieving stressors that could be interfering. Stressors are the main cause for us to fail and make us feel like a nobody.
We need to like who we are and how we perform with our lives. If we don’t like who we are; how can we expect to have any socialization skills. Increase your socialization skills by setting goals, exercising, meditating, and becoming the person you truly want to be.
Ask yourself how do you feel about the way you perform, or what can you do to make changes that will help you in the development of the social self? Make a list of your findings along with what you plan to do so you’ll be proud of being the person you are.
Read your list over and over to keep reminding you that you’ll reach these goals to be the proud person you are. Work on making your goals to reach success by focusing on what changes you are planning to do. As you focus on relaxation to be successful you gain strength you didn’t know was possible.
Each goal as it is crossed off will increase your energy and your attitude will turn to thinking more positive. Have a winning attitude to give you power along with energy in the development of social self in socialization.
As you begin to see your goals crossed off add new ones to the bottom of the list to help keep your energy and motivation up. Don’t stop working to reach goals just look back and see what you have accomplished and how you managed to do it.
As you start having a winning attitude you’ll be able to focus on one thing at a time. Speaking and socialization will be easier with a positive attitude to focus on what is going on around you. If you’re trying to socialize and thinking about something that went on at work or home; your friends will notice that your mind is not where your body is. Focus on making new friends and socializing with them to have fun and relieve stress from the long day you just had.
Stress will cause you to fail with socializing and enjoy yourself. Don’t take your stressors when socializing so you can focus on having fun and enjoying your activities. Meditation will help you relieve stress to leave it where it belongs when you are out. The development of the social self in socialization will grow with more strength when you practice meditation to relax.
There is no way you can eliminate all stress from daily living. Relieve it with meditating for relaxation so you can focus and have fun. Relieve your stressors before they take over and control you and your social self.
The development of social self in socialization takes time so don’t expect to see a change right away. Remember we learn by making mistakes and practicing with meditation to gain growth in our development of the social self.
